Old truss bridge, incomplete, reflected in still river water

Where the bridge fails, we build our own.

Street-smart life advice that actually works — for people done waiting on a system that was never built for them.

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JUL 28

The part we play

Healing means taking an honest look at the role we play in our own suffering. After a certain point, it stops being about what they did to us.

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JUL 28

Your love affair with Mr(s) Wrong

We've all heard the moth-to-flame line. Bad boys, jerks, the wrong types. Maybe we're one of the ladies routinely finding ourselves with the wrong people.

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JUL 28

Buildabear list

Any partner you have to build like a project is a timewaster waiting to happen. You cannot change anyone or make them want what they don't.

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JUL 28

Self love

It's not a bubble bath and a candle. It's the harder, quieter work of actually keeping promises to yourself.

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Empty underpass at night, a STOP sign reflected upside down on wet pavement
reflections

Look down. That's where the real answers are.

While the world rushes past in a blur of deadlines and expectations, I've learned to pause and look at what everyone else steps around.

Read the reflections
City street reflected in a sidewalk puddle, a car blurring past above
Low angle looking up between two tall buildings